Tips how to fight love relationships

"I’ll show you! I’ll ignore you."

Ahhh…the old silent treatment. We’ll  ignore and deprive them of our attention (love in expression) to get them to take notice of us. If they respond, they care. If they don’t, they don’t love you. (If you really loved me, you would respond with concern to my silence.) Maybe if you ignore them, they’ll see how important this “issue” is to you. Maybe they’ll see how hurt you are and not do what they did again. If you ignore them, maybe they’ll be nicer to you and extend themselves to bring you out of your silence. This will prove that they really love you.

Useful Ideas:

• Talk openly and honestly. Know the intent behind your words.
• Understand silence isn’t motivating, it only leads to lack of communication and confusion.

"I need to teach you a lesson."

Since you lover gets unhappy when you spend time on the computer, you’ll purposefully spend more time on the computer to teach her to accept this about you. You’ll teach her to not want to be with you so much. You do the exact opposite of what she wants so she’ll learn to be more accepting and to prove you can’t be manipulated by her. But then she just becomes even more angry thinking you’re deliberately going against her wishes.

Useful Ideas:

• Talk openly and honestly. Know the intent behind your words.
• Look at what areas you’d like for your partner to change, then examine how them changing would benefit you. Discuss what you’ve discovered with your partner.

"You hurt me, now I am going to hurt you."

You felt hurt by something your lover said or did. You want them to feel the same pain back so you do or say something that you’re sure will push a button.

You had hoped that if you got angry, they’d see how much it means to you and will stop doing what you don’t want them to do. You’re simply saying, “If you continue to behave in this way, you’re going to have to experience my wrath.” You had unknowingly hoped that your anger and hostility would be an effective deterrent. But as it turns out, they push back and become angry themselves. Even if the person is willing to change, they don’t want to be shoved, manipulated and condemned into changing. Their reaction is to fight back. It’s a lose-lose situation.

Useful Ideas:

• Take responsibility for your emotions. When you become angry, who’s responsible for that anger?
• Talk openly and honestly. Know the intent behind your words.
• Think of the times you have become angry with your partner. Was it because you were hurt, or wanted them to stop doing something? Discuss with your partner what you discover.

Tips and tricks to pass examination

Preparing for the Exam

These certification exams check your knowledge and experience on their subject. So the best way to get through is to learn and master each and every aspect of the product/subject and get hands on experience on it. You should follow these steps to prepare for any such certification exam:

• Identifying the exam objectives: for that you need to go through the product vendors site because these objectives keep on changing from time to time.
• Study the suggested reading material and make sure you understand everything and also perform the tasks they suggest.
• If you feel the need, you can also go for instructor-led or online training courses.
• Nothing beats a test better than taking it beforehand. Buy good test simulation software and test your skills on it.
• Register for the test at least two weeks before, this helps in building the tempo.

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Tips how to pass examination

1. PRAY - You really have to pray and ask some divine intervention. As what my mom has been saying, never stop praying. What I prayed for last time was to eliminate the spirit of panic coz when you panic everything will be lost. All your stock knowledge will be gone. Thats memory block. Now, when you have a tough question and you dont know the answer, say to the Lord "Lord, please answer for me".

2. EAT BREAKFAST - Some people say that you’ll gonna have upset stomach during the exam. However, I say its a myth coz I never had one. You need lots of energy to sustain you the whole day. The exam is not just mentally contraining but physical as well coz your vital signs will really increase. I even palpitate during the exam and my hand was numb for awhile that I couldn’t write on the answer key. Again, relax and pray.

3. TAKE PHARMATON - This is really my vitamin for the exam even during my NCLEX. It contains vitamins and minerals including ginseng to keep you alert all the day. I was never sleepy during the exam. It cost about P20/capsule.

4. PROPER SHADING - A computer will check the answer key and there’s really a difference between counting it manually. So you have to practice shading. Just one stroke about 4-5 strokes will do as long as the whole box is shaded. Not to light and too dark or you might make a hole out of your answer key. If you have sweaty palms just like me, I reccommend that you bring with you a small towel.

5. AVOID ERASURES - As much as possible avoid erasures, if you do use STEDLER ERASER. Its great for erasing coz its not messy.

6. GROUP YOUR ANSWER - In one general situation, there are about 5 subquestions. So what I did was to group my answers according to the main situation and later transfer them to the answer key. That eliminates any unanswered number.

7.USE CHINESE METHOL STICK - This is so good if you are sleepy. You’ll apply it on your face just beside the eyes and you’ll never sleep away. I tell you. Find out why try it for your self. Haha. Its available at Century Chinese Drugstore at SM. 

8. TRADITIONAL WAY - This is so funny coz I dont believe on this but it wont hurt if you give it a try.

        -Wear Something RED - this is lucky charm daw according to Fengshui, but please dont wear red bra’s and underwear its an eye sore. A red hanky is enough.

9. STAY IN A HOTEL - I stayed at Apo View Hotel for 2 days to make me relax during the exam with all buffet meals! 

Love Tips:Importance of sharing your deepest concerns

When someone close to you dies, when you move, graduate, lose a job or start a new one, questions naturally arise within you about the meaning of your life.  Are you living as you really want to?   Are you doing what’s truly important to you, investing your precious time and energy in ways that are meaningful and fulfilling?  Or do you feel like you’re spinning your wheels, getting nowhere and wasting valuable years?   When issues like these arise, don’t keep them to yourself.  Share your concerns with your intimate partner.  Just by talking aloud to someone who cares enough to really listen, you’ll find relief and may well discover the new directions you seek.    

What are Love Tips? How to keep from catching a bad mood

Emotions are catching.  When you’re around someone who’s full of joy and excitement you too start to feel their pleasure.  By the same token, when you’re with a person who is angry or depressed, you may well find yourself feeling as badly as they do.  You and your intimate partner are so connected that it can be hard to tell who is the source of the emotions you share.  When you find yourself getting upset for no particular reason, it’s a good bet you’ve tuned into your mate’s emotional state.  Take care to put an invisible shield around yourself so you’re less likely to take on his bad mood.  If you stay peaceful, he’ll be better able to release his stress without creating an unpleasant fight.    

Become the choice maker, healthy relationshiip

Once you understand what healthy relationships are, you can work to create them in your life by becoming a choice maker. If you come from a dysfunctional family, you may have been taught that choices are all or nothing, yes or no, black or white. As a result, you may not have learned basic decision-making skills, which include thinking through a number of options and selecting the best one on the basis of what you want. You may find it useful to think of decision making as a three-step process, outlined by the following questions.

1. What choices do I have? First, you need to identify your options and the likely consequences of each choice. This will help you see that, in most cases, your choices are not black and white but include a range of options. In examining the likely consequences of a particular option, you may discover that what feels good now may not, in the long run, be in your best interest.

2. What do I need/want? You need to know yourself well enough to assess your particular needs and wants. This includes knowing what you’re thinking, what you’re feeling, and what is motivating you to think, feel, and act that way.

3. Which option is best for me right now? On the basis of your answers to the first two questions, you can select the option that promises to best meet your unique needs and wants at the present time, with the realization that these needs and wants may change over time.

The more you practice this three-step process, the more experience you will gain as a choice maker. The more you apply it to your relationship choices, the better your chances to get love fight.

As you consider the options available to you, keep in mind the following:

Most choices are not perfect. We can rarely get 100 percent of what we want. Many times we are afraid to make a decision because we fear making the wrong choice or having to give up one thing for another. It is important to remember that choices typically involve a trade-off. All we can do is strive to make the best choice among the options we have, based on what we know or believe to be true.

Mistakes are unavoidable. As fallible human beings, we can’t always choose the best option. Once you accept the fact that you will make mistakes, you can choose to learn from them to make better and better decisions in the future.

Choices are not forever. Choice making is an ongoing process. The best option one day may be very different the next. We change, and our needs and wants change, too. We need to be prepared to reevalute and, when necessary, renegotiate and alter our decisions.

Love at the right time

AnG PaGmaMahaL duMadaTinG sa TaManG
oRas At TamaNg paGkaKataOn..MinsaN
SiniSiSi Pa NatiN anG saRiLi NaTin KuNg BaKiT
NgaYon Mo LaNg NaLamaNg MahaL Mo
Sya..KunG aLam Mo LaNg..NgaYon Mo LanG
Yon NaLaMan Kasi EtO YunG TiNataWag
Na "RyT TyM"..SoMe ThiNk Of LoVe As PasT
TimE..FLinG At TrIp LaNg..YunG MaHaL Nya
NgayOn BuKas HiNdi Na,BoYfriENd Nya NgaYon
Pero TaNggaP Nya Na IsaNg aRaw TaTawaGin
Nya din Yung "EX".. MataGal Nga,inaAboT pa Ng
> taOn pErO ILaNg taoN?? 1? 2? 3? Tapos PaG
nagKakaSawaAn na Sa MUkHa NagAAyaWaN
Na At MaY iBa NamaN Na NagTataGal LanG ng
TaoN daHiL naNghihiNayaNg sa
PinagsamaHan??! BaTa Pa MasYado aNg
ganoN magmahaL.. MaY iBa NaMaN Na
MasYadOng SeryoSo At SenSiTiBo Pag DatIng
Sa baGay Na yAn..YuNg TipO Ng TaoNg
haNdaNg iRisK aNg
laHat..MagBigaY..MagParaYa..PaRa LaNg DoN
sa TaoNg maHaL Nya..MerOn PaNg Iba Dyan Na
PiniPigiLaN YunG naRaRaNdaMaN Nya KasI
HigH ScHoOL PaLaNg O Di Kaya TeEn AgER
PaLaNg,GuSto Nya KasIng MaGiNg siLa NuNg
taOng Yon Sa paNahoNg seyosoHan Na..YunG
SiGuraDo Na Sya Na Yung TaoNg Yon Nga ang >
GuSto Nya makaSama PaNghaBanG
BuhaY..KumBaga "RyT TyM"..ThErE WaS This
QuOTaTioN SaYinG: "i dont care how many lips
u’vE kisd, i dont care how many women u’ve
embraced, i dont care how many ladies hear u
say u love dem, ol i care is d future..not to be u’r
first but to be u’r last".. MaSaRap MagmaHaL Sa
TaOng MahAL ka Din..YunG feELiNg Nyo SouL
maTe Kayo..Kaya Kung paRa Sayo Talaga
Yon..iLaNg taOn Man KayoNg Di MagKita..iLanG
TaO maN anG MahaLin Nya..GaaNo maN sya
KalaYo O MaraMi MaNg HadLanG.. MagKiKita
PaRiN KaYo KuNg taLagaNg paRa Kayo Sa Isa’t
isa.. HinDi HinahaNap Yan..KusaNg dumadating
sa "RYT TYM"..

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