HOWTO fight long distance relationship, how to make relationship strong

Long Distance Relationships share the same facts as an average relationship. It involves two people who share an interest in each other’s lives, care for one another and of course have a love for each other that they hope will only continue to grow. On the other hand, a long distance relationship does have its differences as well. Being unable to spend time together in a physical presence makes it harder to hang on to, but does not spell out doom for your relationship.

rust is a major necessity if you wish to have your relationship from a distance. Without trust and honesty, the relationship is in for danger and unsuccessfulness, just as it would be any other relationship. By accepting the challenge of a long distance relationship, you also accepted the fact that you will have to have the trust and faith that your partner will not be seeing anyone else as promised.

Long distance relationship is really hard, in order to keep the love alive, both parties needs to ensure that they communicate everyday as much as possible, sharing all the ringhs that had happened to them on a daily basis. Phone calls and emails do work and as long as trust is there,all should work out.

Long distance relationship is not bad the importance is trust each other, and honesty. 

 

 

Tips how to fight love relationships

"I’ll show you! I’ll ignore you."

Ahhh…the old silent treatment. We’ll  ignore and deprive them of our attention (love in expression) to get them to take notice of us. If they respond, they care. If they don’t, they don’t love you. (If you really loved me, you would respond with concern to my silence.) Maybe if you ignore them, they’ll see how important this “issue” is to you. Maybe they’ll see how hurt you are and not do what they did again. If you ignore them, maybe they’ll be nicer to you and extend themselves to bring you out of your silence. This will prove that they really love you.

Useful Ideas:

• Talk openly and honestly. Know the intent behind your words.
• Understand silence isn’t motivating, it only leads to lack of communication and confusion.

"I need to teach you a lesson."

Since you lover gets unhappy when you spend time on the computer, you’ll purposefully spend more time on the computer to teach her to accept this about you. You’ll teach her to not want to be with you so much. You do the exact opposite of what she wants so she’ll learn to be more accepting and to prove you can’t be manipulated by her. But then she just becomes even more angry thinking you’re deliberately going against her wishes.

Useful Ideas:

• Talk openly and honestly. Know the intent behind your words.
• Look at what areas you’d like for your partner to change, then examine how them changing would benefit you. Discuss what you’ve discovered with your partner.

"You hurt me, now I am going to hurt you."

You felt hurt by something your lover said or did. You want them to feel the same pain back so you do or say something that you’re sure will push a button.

You had hoped that if you got angry, they’d see how much it means to you and will stop doing what you don’t want them to do. You’re simply saying, “If you continue to behave in this way, you’re going to have to experience my wrath.” You had unknowingly hoped that your anger and hostility would be an effective deterrent. But as it turns out, they push back and become angry themselves. Even if the person is willing to change, they don’t want to be shoved, manipulated and condemned into changing. Their reaction is to fight back. It’s a lose-lose situation.

Useful Ideas:

• Take responsibility for your emotions. When you become angry, who’s responsible for that anger?
• Talk openly and honestly. Know the intent behind your words.
• Think of the times you have become angry with your partner. Was it because you were hurt, or wanted them to stop doing something? Discuss with your partner what you discover.